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Did you know that since 2012, gender dysphoria diagnosises are up 5000% in the UK? Young women are increasingly overrepresented in these statistics, up to 87% of all referrals in Finland.

At the same time, a constantly growing number of people are healing dysphoria, de-transitioning and sharing their experience. These people call themselves 'detrans' and their experiences provide fascinating insights into gender ideolgy and identity belief systems.

detrans.ai is a research and self-guided therapy tool which generates meta questions and answers them by surfacing and integrating a variety of real human experiences and perspectives from the /r/detrans subreddit. This produces helpful and insightful responses that help users understand how and why people adopt, inhabit, and let go of gender identities, and how these experiences shape one’s relationship with self, body and the world.

For a more affirming experience, please see genderaffirming.ai.

Support, life advice and knowledge from over 50,000 detransitioners and desisters.

How does it work?

detrans.ai is built with the LlamaIndex framework and the state-of-the-art open-source Chinese kimi-k2-instruct model to reduce Western political bias. You can chat directly with kimi here. If you are interested in the prompts that were used to generate responses, you can read them on the 'System Prompts' page.

For reasons I can only speculate on; ChatGPT and most Western LLMs seem to be deliberately programmed to promote and uphold gender ideolgy concepts and to shut down any discussion about the harms and validity of these belief systems. It proved to be impossible to use OpenAI's GPT models for this project. If you would like to explore topics through the lens of those who beleive in gender ideolgy, see genderaffirming.ai

Top Picks

Some great starter questions to ask detrans people...

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What's an egg?

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Is gender a social construct?

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I didn't choose to be trans!

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What is a belief system?

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What is an identity trap?

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How do you get out of an identity trap?

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What is the difference between sex and gender?

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How is cancel culture harmful?

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What are trans rights?

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Does transition ever end?

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Why do some women hate their breasts?

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How do online echo chambers cause psychosis?

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Why do detrans voices get silenced?

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Is gender ideology at odds with the goals of feminism?

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What are the main reasons that women adpot trans identity?

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What are the main reasons that men adopt trans identity?

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How do non-binary identities re-inforce sexist stereotypes and roles?

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Why do people identify vaguely as queer now?

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How does LGB differ from the T?

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Is there a link between autism and transgender identity?

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Is gender-affirming care based on science?

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Why is gender-affirming care currently considered the only solution to dysphoria?

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Is academic research on trans and gender topics biased?

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Is teaching gender ideology to kids progressive?

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Is gender ideology fuelling a culture war?

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Is the culture war preventing humanity from solving real problems?

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Why do some refer to gender ideology as a mind virus?

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Why are the rates of people who identify as trans increasing?

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Is the trans suicide rate possibly mis-represented?

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Why do some trans people say 'death before detransition'?

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Why is gender dysphoria no longer treated as a mental health issue?

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Why are there so many ladyboys in Thailand?

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Why is Iran a global hub for transgender surgeries?

Society & Culture

How gender beleif systems affects us all

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What are the transition rates for men vs women?

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Why is the trans suicide rate so high?

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Is being trans a mental illness?

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Is the trans suicide rate mis-represented?

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What does it mean to be gender critical?

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Do suicides based on regret get blamed on social acceptance?

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How does the trans community use mantras?

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Does the trans community encourage suicide?

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Does society believe that gender is a social construct?

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Does gender ideology affect society?

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What's the difference between being a tomboy and transgender?

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Are there male brains and female brains?

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Where did the term gender come from?

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Why are autistic people overrepresented in the trans community?

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How is gender ideology at odds with homosexual identities?

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How is gender ideology at odds with heterosexual identities?

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Did gender activists hijack the gay rights movement?

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How is gender ideology at odds with the goals of feminism?

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Is it beneficial to teach the idea that you can change sex to children?

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Do children ever grow up to regret transitioning at such a young age?

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What are the effects the transgender movement has on our wider society?

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Is gender ideology fuelling a culture war?

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Does transgender ideology contradict itself?

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Why are so many people identifying as trans or non-binary now? Is it a trend?

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Is it common for friends of trans people to become trans too?

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What is the bathroom debate about?

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What are trans rights vs women's rights conflicts?

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What is the sports participation controversy?

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What is the medicalization of gender non-conforming children?

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What is the history of trans activism?

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What are drag queen story hours?

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What is the difference between gender and sex?

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Why are there so many ladyboys in Thailand?

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Why is Iran a global hub for transgender surgeries?

The truth can hurt, but it will set you free -

All you need to do, is learn to just be.

And be sure to mind your thoughts,

Because the mind is like a garden,

And each thought is a seed.

We reap what we sow,

But through this we can grow.

Built by Peter James Steven in Welllington, NZ

I love most people, and hate most cults.
This is an open-source project. The code is available under an MIT license on Github.
European language translations coming soon...
Nobody in the real world is afraid of getting cancelled!

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